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Donald’s Story

If it weren’t for Muskogee’s drug court referring Donald Hobson to the Gospel Rescue Mission he said he would probably be back in jail.

When Hobson arrived at the mission he had nothing but the clothes on his back.

“The people were wonderful and allowed me to go through their clothes closet, provided me hygiene products, a bed and meals.”

  • Because of the generosity of supporters like you we are able to provide interview and nice clothing to our men and women staying at the mission.  We just might be the only shelter in the nation with a dress code.  Visit us on Thursdays to experience dress for success Thursdays.

Hobson said that the people he had been hanging around with people who had not changed their life for the good. This place is a wonderful place that will get you back on your feet spiritually and mentally.”

  • Experts say that we become like the 5 people we spend the most time with.  At GRM we encourage the men and women to make the Father, Son and Holy Spirit three of those and carefully guard your time with others.

He said that the staff were “just wonderful” and that “you are 100 percent turned around.” Dobson has a full-time job at Superior Linen.

  • The only sustainable program to help people out of poverty is work and Gospel Rescue Mission’s upcoming Employment First Program will help many get back into the workforce.  We’ve found that relatively few disabilities keep people from being able to do some sort of work.  Everyone can add value to our community!  We are becoming proficient at identifying opportunities and provide work training.  Everyone deserves a chance to succeed.  

“Once I get back on my feet, I would be glad to come back and help them with anything.”

  •  Looking through history and exploring what it takes to help men and women rise out of poverty it is amazing how often this idea of giving back to society comes up.  We encourage our men and women to volunteer throughout the community.

 Donating to GRM is supporting our efforts to go beyond a handout.  Consider a 3 year pledge today to see more changed lives!

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Nicholas’s Story

Nicholas Ruiz, a guest at the Gospel Rescue Mission, says that a family is not always blood related.

 

Ruiz said that a family are people who want you to do good in your life and then support you.

“It’s who you surround yourself with — positive people, which results in positive action.”

 

He said his first plan was to keep doing the programs offered at the mission and learn more about God. “I’m learning a new thought process,” he said. “They saved me here and brought me back to life.’

 

Ruiz said that before he changed his life that people were afraid of him. “Now I talk to them and give them guidance and are able to connect with them.”

 

He said that he would always be a part of the mission.

For many that come to visit us at GRM loneliness is their greatest poverty.  Help us help others like Nicholas to find a new family and a new life.

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Leslie’s Story

“I’m a firm believer that God won’t give you more than you can handle,” said Leslie Torix, who resides at the Gospel Rescue Mission.

          Torix should know. He tried living with his alcoholic father but that didn’t work out. Then he broke his leg June 18 and the doctor said he probably wouldn’t walk again.

          But God had other plans.

          “The Lord has already blessed me because I can walk,” Torix said, who believes that it is a work of God. Two months ago he ditched one of his crutches.

          While he’s not completely healed he only uses his one crutch about fifty percent of the time.

          Torix said he likes it at the mission. “I like it here at the mission because the mission teachers you how to be a better Christian and trains you on how to get a job.” Torix accepted Christ as his Savior at the age of 24 and is now 38.

Let God use you to help others this year.  Consider a 3 year pledge to GRM or a one time donation.  Either way God will use your generosity to change lives.

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Bobby’s Story

          Bobby McGowen originally came back to Muskogee to be with his daughter and realized that the family situation was not good for him.

          “I was at the point of time where I was ready to get back on drugs and really mess myself up,” he said. He said he heard about the Gospel Rescue Mission and decided to check it out. He did so by going to lunch and dinner for about two weeks.

          “I decided to give it all over and check in and get the help I needed,” McGowen said. The people at the mission welcomed him with open arms and showed him that they actually wanted to help him be his best, he said.

          “They got me to open my mind up and that being on drugs is not an option and coming back to God is where I needed to be spiritually,” he said. The mission helped McGowen make plans, keep his mind open to what’s wrong and what’s bad and what he needed to stay away from.

          McGowen said that he has two options — the first is to stay at the mission and become a staff member. The second is to stay there long enough to make a difference then get a job and leave.

          “The people at the mission have given me opportunities to realize I’m not a bad person — that I have good in myself and am not always a bad person,” he said.

          McGowen said he recommended the Gospel Rescue Mission because they have “an awesome staff” and are there to help people and not look down on them. “They want what’s best for you to better yourself, if you’re willing.”

          He said that for those don’t want to reside at the mission, “they can always get breakfast, lunch and dinner for free.” While there, McGowen recommends to talk to the mission staff and find out what they can do for you.

          “It’s all about choices.”

Help others like Bobby learn to make better choices that will enable them to make life giving choices.  Consider a 3 year pledge to GRM.  Click on the button to choose life!

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Camille’s Story

Camille Sciscoe arrived at the Gospel Rescue Mission after a series of incidents that led her to near homelessness.

          In 2013 she was divorced and moved back to Illinois to live with her Mother who died in 2014. In July she had a nervous breakdown due to family issues, which caused her to arrive in Muskogee to live with her best friend who kicked her out in November.

          Her case manager at Green Country Behavioral Health referred her to the Gospel Rescue Mission.

          “In November I walked into the Gospel Rescue Mission feeling as low as a person could feel, scared and bawling my eyes out,” Sciscoe said.

          Other women residing at the mission welcomed her with open arms. “They consoled me and told me that they’ve all been where I was and that I was really in a good place.”

          The night she arrived at the mission was mandatory chapel night. “I hadn’t been in church since 2014. Watching my mother die really shook my faith in God and I kind of got mad at Him,” Sciscoe said.

          During chapel services she felt really guilty and that God was really dealing with her. “A conviction came over me and I knew I had to find a church.” She ended up attending Celebrate Recovery.

          By attending meetings at the mission and Celebrate Recovery she has learned to deal with her ex-husband’s emotional abuse.

          “For the first time in a long time I have a family — a Gospel Rescue Mission family,” Sciscoe said. “I don’t have a mom, dad and my aunt’s are all gone.”

          After losing her family of origin, the thought of losing her new family is something she doesn’t want to think about.

When you support the Gospel Rescue Mission you are giving men and women a hand up!

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Waylon’s Story

Waylon was in a love affair with drugs and was trapped in a destructive trap. He would use energy drinks and methamphetamine to get through the day.  Then later he would use beer and marijuana to help him get to sleep.  He would have trouble waking up in the morning so he would use the energy drinks and methamphetamine to get going again. This cycle kept Waylon trapped and he was going nowhere fast.

Tragedy struck Waylon when his son died of SIDS. His entire being shifted.  Suddenly morals went out the window and he was living a life with no holds barred.  The cycle of drug usage became his escape.   Selfishness became a way of life and in the pain relationships died.  Among those relationships that suffered was one with another son who is now 8 years old.  Waylon now deeply regrets the pain that he caused.  But in the midst of all of this the worst relationship death was that Waylon had given up on God.

Waylon knew that God could take the pain away, but he kept trying to do it himself. The drugs became his god, his idol.  Ultimately this idol took everything from Waylon and he found himself at the Gospel Rescue Mission.

At GRM he witnessed the staff and guests serving one another. He was surprised to see people lives being healed and real change taking place around him.  Like most people he would have judged the men and women who are staying at the shelter, but now he says, “Really we need to walk in their shoes for a season.  These are giving, loving people who will take jobs that no one else will.  They only want to be seen and cared for.”

Where Waylon once only could see far enough into the future to where he might find his next hit he now has dreams.

The vision is clear in his head as he describes a house with land, clothing hanging on the line and children playing on a tire swing. He would have a loving and faithful wife that will respect him because he is a kind and generous man.  In the dream he brings home game and fish from adventures that he hopes to share with his children to include his now 8 year old son that had been neglected for so long.

Waylon dreams of a restored life and is currently living a life full of hope.

When you donate to the Gospel Rescue Mission you are donating to a cause.  The cause is to give men and women a hand up out of poverty . NEVER A HANDOUT!

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Trena’s Story

Trena’s Story

Today Trena is a grateful believer and follower of Jesus Christ. But that is far from where she was just a short time ago.

Trena’s father was in and out of her life until she was 23, this made her mother her primary caregiver and friend. When Trena was 13 her mom’s boyfriend started grooming her, then to add to his control of Trena; he introduced her to cocaine when she was 15.  At the time she felt this was a glamorous and exciting life of addiction, secrets and the attention of a father figure.  For a season she relished this double life.  In one community of friends she was the wholesome small town girl and in another she was seen as an older party girl.

 But this double life was taking its toll on her; more dope, more sexual advances.  Anger started to define who Trena was and the abuse became more pronounced and violent.

“I remember a particular time we had been up for days. I remember laying there asking God if He would just get me out of this alive. The next morning, I woke up late but it was my job to have breakfast and lunch made. I walked into the kitchen and with one punch he laid me out cold. My head bounced off the floor. When I woke up, my mom was there pulling my lips out of my teeth, they had went clear through. She just simply said we are going back home.”

The change of location though, helped little as Trena took up with old friends. She was at a party when she met her husband.  Very quickly the relationship bloomed and they were married within 4 months.

 “We were happy for the first six years of our marriage, never really fought. I was clean and finally had normal in my life. I started noticing changes in his behavior. I guess looking back; I just chose not to see it. Our life wasn’t the fairytale but we had love.”

The all too familiar life of a whirlwind of activity, abuse and lack of control again took hold of Trena. He was in the midst of his addiction and Trena defended him even though she knew the truth.  She lived life on a rollercoaster of denial.

 Again this beautiful, happy woman gave into the anger, shame and guilt that had earlier defined her life but again, because of the secrets, she was forced to live a double life.

 By day, Trena held a full time, worked all the over time she could handle, even babysitting on her time off. By night she was busy covering for her husband and medicating her own hurt and shame.

1995 began a series of tragedy for Trena, her best friend got killed by a drunk driver. Four months later a beloved cousin and her 7 year old son were hit and killed by a train. Four months after that her aunt passed away with cancer. Within five years she lost 2 more uncles and another aunt.

With all of this stress she had a miscarriage. Bitterness was ruling her heart and her personal life was growing more toxic by the minute. Her husband got deeper and deeper into drugs.  Overall Trena fought for 12 years to keep her marriage going, only to lose it all.

“My cousin who was preaching in a small church in my neighborhood started witnessing to me about the love of Jesus Christ! He told me no matter what I had done God still loved me.” 

Trena struggled with that truth.

“How could God love me? How could I be worthy of it? I was dirty and use up. One night, I began to pray. Cry out really. I asked God to deliver me from the nightmares and memories that haunted me and for addictions to be lifted off me. I was shattered.  I felt betrayed, hurt, alone in this world and ashamed of my choices.”

Coming to accept the truth of God’s love Trena said the sinner’s prayer with her cousin and was soon baptized

A wide array of health problems plagued Trena and seemed to prevent her from getting ahead. It was then that she heard about Celebrate Recovery and decided to go because she knew she couldn’t do this on her own anymore. There Trena discovered who she really was apart from addiction, abuse and shame.  Much healing has taken place and she pays it forward by   facilitating a women’s small group.

As Trena began putting her life back together she realized that she was missing some key information. Basic life skills like budgeting, using language that was clearly understood by the middle class and goal setting were gaps in her education.  Muskogee’s Bridges out of Poverty began the process of filling those gaps but in many ways only wetted her appetite to learn more.  At Bridges she learned about how to best use community resources, that is when she discovered Gospel Rescue Mission’s Financial Help program.  The idea of handouts made Trena feel insignificant and embarrassed but this program gave her the opportunity to take classes and apply that knowledge and if she put forth the effort she would get help with some of her bills.

It took Trena several weeks but she learned more on how to manage her money, goal setting as well as how to establish some healthy habits.  When she completed the course she received help with her utility bill.  A short time later when Trena accomplished some of her personal goals with the incentive of more financial help, she beamed with excitement at her success.

“I have great worth and the fact that GRM believed that I could do this class and accomplish my goals reminds me of the great love of God.  My future is bright.”

Consider a 3 year pledge so that GRM can offer more of these life changing programs to more people.  We are aiming to be a handup out of poverty, not a handout.

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Rani’s Story

Rani’s Story

Rani Paxton said that her drug use was getting her nowhere.  She went to a church for help and they referred her to the Gospel Rescue Mission. “I knew I was doing wrong and coming to the mission was the best thing that ever happened to me,” she said.

          She gives the mission credit to helping her overcome her drug addiction “through God.” She has completed all the recovery programs at the mission and Central Baptist Church to include Celebrate Recovery and the mission’s Doorways of Hope.

          Paxton has also completed drug and alcohol counseling at Green Country Behavioral Health Services and Women In Safe Homes for domestic violence.

          She’s been clean for three months.

          When she arrived at the mission she “received a wonderful reception and they helped me get my life back.” Staff at the mission taught her time management, social skills and helped her with her behavior and taught her about humility and gratitude.

          Without the mission I would have been lost in my addiction. I never would have made it. There is a circle of good here.” She said she has lost everything but now there is a skip in her step.

          Paxton said that the mission provides outpatient recovery program and the mission provides every resource for a path to recovery.

          “This is the place for a second chance.”

With your help others like Rani can get a second chance for a successful life.  At GRM we provide a hand up and not a hand out. Consider a 3 year pledge.

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Dallas’s Story

Dallas had been raised in the church and taught right from wrong. He knew the Scriptures and he had a great understanding of truth and grace.  But once Meth became his idol, life changed.

Meth had reduced Dallas from a fun loving, good natured and hard working man to living in his car. For weeks he had lived in hotels and shoplifting to get anything that he might need.  This lifestyle kept him moving between Oklahoma and Texas.

All of this movement kept his life from ever stabilizing and Dallas was simply waiting for everything in his life to come crashing down on him. Sitting in his car he thought, “Something needs to change.”

Now after better than three months at Gospel Rescue Mission, Dallas now has a mind that is clearing up from the nightmare that Meth had brought him. His mind is focused, he has no urges to go back to that lifestyle and he is learning job skills.

PRAYER REQUEST: Dallas is trying to quit smoking which for many people is the most difficult addiction to break.

Dallas credits GRITU the online courses at GRM that teach life skills and discipleship for the change in his life. Monday nights at Doorways of Hope helps engrain the lessons from the online course and he is growing stronger physically, mentally, spiritually and socially.  At Doorways he hears testimonies of those who are recovering from addiction.  He also gets to see the negative side at the mission when someone relapses.  He realizes that is likely what he used to look like. It scares him toward sobriety.

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Dallas spent time as an apprentice at GRM learning maintenance and custodial skills. If you are looking for a hard working and dedicated employee, Dallas is ready to serve.

Recently, Dallas was hired as a maintenance worker at a local hotel and is doing great, staying clean and is preparing for a full and complete life.

Thanks to your support our GRITU and Doorways of Hope programs are giving those who have had life altering addictions, like Dallas, a new start on life. Consider a three year pledge to GRM so that more lives can be restored.

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Sheena’s Story

Sheena wanted to feel loved and fantasized about living as a fairy tale princess; but it seemed like she was always looking for love in all the wrong places.  On a regular basis her romance movie would turn into a horror film.  Her prince charming would suddenly become the beast.  Abusive relationships left her feeling abandoned and worthless.

With seven children, no home, no family support left, and feeling like a failure Sheena arrived at the Gospel Rescue Mission planning on staying just long enough to come up with a plan.  However, she discovered a Savior who felt that she was highly valued, who saw her as a princess.  It was not long before this hardened angry woman transformed into a compassionate and loving mother and part of the GRM family.

Today Sheena is determined to never be in a position like this again.  She is rekindling dreams of being a nurse.  She loves the idea or encouraging people and share in their stories.  Sheena is grateful for the opportunities to learn and grow.  She is fully engaged in our GRITU courses where she is learning valuable life skills, self esteem and confidence.  Sheena routinely attends a local church where she has made new friends.

“This stay at GRM is helping me keep my family together.  If we did not come here my kids would have been taken from me and I would have felt even more like a failure.”

Sheena is living life as a new creation because of supporters like you.

Life can be an especially difficult time for our neighbors (approximately 22% of whom are living below the poverty line.)  Whether they’re sleeping in the streets, or living in places not really meant to be home, many people in our community feel helpless and alone.